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A gentle reminder that if someone replies to you in a way that makes you feel uncomfortable, you don't have to reply!

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  • scottjenson@social.coopS This user is from outside of this forum
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    A gentle reminder that if someone replies to you in a way that makes you feel uncomfortable, you don't have to reply!

    1. Do nothing, you don't *owe* them a reply
    2. Block them, you certainly don't owe them an explanation

    While the fediverse is almost always a very nice place, a few abuse the rules of social conduct. If someone isn't playing nice, then just don't play back.

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      A gentle reminder that if someone replies to you in a way that makes you feel uncomfortable, you don't have to reply!

      1. Do nothing, you don't *owe* them a reply
      2. Block them, you certainly don't owe them an explanation

      While the fediverse is almost always a very nice place, a few abuse the rules of social conduct. If someone isn't playing nice, then just don't play back.

      evan@cosocial.caE This user is from outside of this forum
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      @scottjenson hey, Scott. This is nice advice, but I think we can do better. Because so many Mastodon users browse the "public feed", and respond to posts there, it's pretty common to get brusque or opinionated replies from complete strangers. What can we do in our UIs to gently remind repliers which posts they have a direct or indirect social connection with, and which are from strangers that they should probably be careful with replying to?

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        @scottjenson hey, Scott. This is nice advice, but I think we can do better. Because so many Mastodon users browse the "public feed", and respond to posts there, it's pretty common to get brusque or opinionated replies from complete strangers. What can we do in our UIs to gently remind repliers which posts they have a direct or indirect social connection with, and which are from strangers that they should probably be careful with replying to?

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        @scottjenson also, I don't have research data backing this assumption -- that replies from strangers without a connection are the ones that are most problematic. It'd be good to get some statistical information on it!

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          @scottjenson also, I don't have research data backing this assumption -- that replies from strangers without a connection are the ones that are most problematic. It'd be good to get some statistical information on it!

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          @scottjenson similarly, replies from people who haven't read one's bio beforehand can be frustrating. I find it difficult when people reply to me about ActivityPub without knowing my background.

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          • evan@cosocial.caE evan@cosocial.ca

            @scottjenson hey, Scott. This is nice advice, but I think we can do better. Because so many Mastodon users browse the "public feed", and respond to posts there, it's pretty common to get brusque or opinionated replies from complete strangers. What can we do in our UIs to gently remind repliers which posts they have a direct or indirect social connection with, and which are from strangers that they should probably be careful with replying to?

            renchap@oisaur.comR This user is from outside of this forum
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            @evan @scottjenson something like https://blog.joinmastodon.org/2023/11/improving-the-quality-of-conversations-on-mastodon/ ?

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            • renchap@oisaur.comR renchap@oisaur.com

              @evan @scottjenson something like https://blog.joinmastodon.org/2023/11/improving-the-quality-of-conversations-on-mastodon/ ?

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              @renchap @scottjenson Yeah, that is wonderful work!

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